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Sharing a wishlist2 min read·Updated on June 2, 2026

Sharing a wishlist with family and friends without duplicate gifts

Sharing a wishlist online where givers can see each other's reservations, but the birthday person sees nothing. Avoid duplicate gifts without spoiling the surprise.

A wishlist is great for the birthday person and for the givers. But one thing often goes wrong: several people buy the same thing. Below is how to avoid that without spoiling the surprise.

Why duplicate gifts keep happening

  • The list lives in one place, but not everyone checks it at the right moment.
  • People don't ask each other what they're giving, to keep the surprise.
  • Online lists often don't show what's already reserved, or only after the gift is bought.

What a well shared wishlist does

  • Everyone sees the same overview, without accounts and without fuss.
  • Reservations are visible to the givers, but hidden from the birthday person.
  • Changes show up right away, also when someone cancels.

How it works in Hieper

You create a wishlist on your own profile or for someone in your Circle. Family or friends see the list via your Hieper link. Anyone who reserves something also sees what others have reserved. The birthday person only sees the wishes, not who is giving what.

FAQ

Frequently asked questions

Can the birthday person see who reserves what?

No. In Hieper, givers see each other's reservations, but the birthday person only sees which wishes are on the list.

Does a wishlist work without everyone having an account?

Yes. You share your Hieper link and people can read along and reserve without signing in themselves.

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